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people wanna be tough, its all about their pride and being rough around the edges and hardcore or at least thats what they want u to think. we find it so hard to ask for help unless its absolutely necessary. but deep down it isn’t just about being tough it’s about acceptance, about giving yourself permision to let your guard down, as long as you choose your moments wisely and about allowing yourself to be close to someone.
when it comes down to it, all we really want is to be close to somebody. be ourselves and let go at times but we tend to keep our distance and pretend not to care about each other, to act as if nothing ever means anything, but it's usually a load of bull.
i really think we should pick and choose who we want to remain close to, and once we've chosen those people, stick close by, no matter how much we hurt them or the circumstances.
the people that are still with you at the end of the day, those are the ones worth keeping
and sure, sometimes close can be too close.
but sometimes, that invasion of personal space, it can be exactly what you need.